Okay, so let’s talk about that “2017 attire” thing. Honestly, looking back, it’s kinda funny and a little cringey, but hey, we all start somewhere, right?
Basically, in 2017, I was trying to figure out my style. I was hitting that point where I didn’t want to just wear whatever anymore. I wanted to look… intentional, you know? I spent way too much time looking at fashion blogs and Instagram, trying to figure out what “my aesthetic” was supposed to be.
The Experiment Started:
- I started by cleaning out my closet – ruthlessly. I tossed out anything that didn’t fit, was stained, or just didn’t spark joy (thanks, Marie Kondo!).
- Then, I hit the stores – armed with screenshots of outfits I liked. My goal was to recreate those looks.
- I even tried thrifting. Let me tell you, sifting through racks of clothes for hours is tiring! I managed to find a few gems, though – a vintage denim jacket and a surprisingly cool leather belt.
The “Looks” I Was Going For:
This is where it gets interesting… or maybe just embarrassing. I went through a few phases.
- First, there was the “Boho Chic” phase. Flowy dresses, fringe everything, and way too many beaded necklaces. It looked awful on me, I’m too short to pull it off.
- Then, I tried “Minimalist.” Black turtleneck sweaters, grey pants, white sneakers. I felt like a sad extra in a French film.
- Finally, I settled (sort of) on something I called “Urban Casual.” Think dark jeans, t-shirts, bomber jackets, and boots. It was comfortable, at least.
The Reality Check:
The problem was, I was trying to force myself into these pre-defined styles. I wasn’t really thinking about what I liked, what felt good on my body, or what was practical for my life. I learned that the hard way.
What I Actually Learned:
It’s not about chasing trends. It’s about figuring out what works for you. What makes you feel confident and comfortable.
- Fit is everything. Seriously. A well-fitting t-shirt will always look better than an ill-fitting designer blouse.
- Comfort matters. If you’re not comfortable in what you’re wearing, you’re not going to feel good.
- Quality over quantity. It’s better to have a few well-made pieces that you love than a closet full of cheap stuff you’ll never wear.
- Don’t be afraid to experiment. Try new things, but don’t feel like you have to stick to a certain “style.”
The End Result:
I still don’t have a perfectly defined “style,” and that’s okay. I wear what I like, what feels good, and what makes me feel confident. Some days it’s jeans and a t-shirt, some days it’s a dress and heels. The important thing is that it’s me.
Looking back at those 2017 outfits, I cringe, but I also appreciate the journey. It taught me a lot about myself and about what I value in clothing. And hey, at least I have some funny photos to look back on!
